ok, so here is jerry falwell, the stalwart of hypocrisy, puritan through and through, on chris matthews' show saying that he chose to be heterosexual, yet never had to 'decide that'.... in his own words:

MSNBC - 'Hardball with Chris Matthews' for Dec. 2: "MATTHEWS: How old were you when you chose to be heterosexual?
FALWELL: Oh, I don?t remember that.
MATTHEWS: Well, you must, because you say it?s a big decision.
FALWELL: Well, I started dating when I was about 13.
MATTHEWS: And you had to decide between boys and girls. And you chose girls.
FALWELL: I never had to decide. I never thought about it. "